How to Flirt on Facebook without Being Creepy

A Guide to Facebook Flirting.
by Updated February 25, 2013

Facebook is definitely one of the social networking sites where you can easily find friends that are connected to you. If you’re looking for someone to flirt with, then Facebook makes it really easy to do that.  You just have to take risks and chat with single ladies or gentlemen whom you think have the qualities that you are looking for in a romantic partner. Don’t be afraid to make the first move. Always remember that you’ll never know if you don’t ask.

 Here are steps you can take to romantically socialize and flirt with your crush on the social networking site.

1.) Show the REAL you. This golden rule doesn’t only apply on the social networking site, but in the real world of romantic relationships as well. You also have to be confident at all the times. Tell your interest to someone even if you don’t know if he or she will also like you in return. If the other person seems receptive of your intentions, then don’t let this opportunity go. Take this chance for you to get to know each another.

2.) Do some changes in your account. Keep it updated with your recent photos and interests. Make sure that you look presentable in all of your pictures. Your profile helps you in making a good impression around people. Thus, as much as possible make a smiling portrait of you as your primary photo in your Facebook account.

You can still upload pictures showing your drinking sessions with family and friends but make sure that you have already informed your prospect about this side of your personality.

3.) If you are a pet lover, then prevent making the picture of your pet as your primary photo. The same goes for your favorite cartoon or game character. Always remember that this is YOUR profile. You are a human being and not some character being played in a computer or even an animal. So just upload your photo for you to show other people that you are completely confident with your own self. Give them the impression that you are easy to mingle with and have a good personality.

4.) Don’t act like some stalker or a huge fan of your prospect. Keep your admiration level to a minimum to prevent them from thinking that you are a lunatic on the loose. You can comment on one or two photos of your prospect but stick to that number. Don’t like everything that he or she posts on Facebook unless you want to come across as needy and out for attention.  You also don’t want to be blocked by that person, for liking and commenting too much. Follow this advice at all times.

5.) Try to be an interesting person if you’re not. If you’re a guy, comment on a few of her photos. Make sure that your comments don’t sound creepy or you may find yourself being removed from her friend list. Just be natural as much as possible. Remember that you’re still establishing a connection here so take your time. You don’t need to rush like tomorrow’s the end of the world. Do things one day at a time.

6.) Use your mutual friends to your advantage. Talk about them if you want to strike up a conversation. Just don’t talk only about your friends if you want to maintain the good impression that you have already given to your prospect. For guys, just try to be funny most of the time. Girls love that characters in their dates so read more about appropriate jokes on your vacant time. Make your prospect come to you. If you’re a girl, attract him with your amazing personality.

7.) If your prospect replies to your comments, then maintain proper grammar and be polite at all times. Just continue to reply to his or her queries for your prospect to see that you indeed have something in common and interested in them.

8.) Private message them and flirt completely once you have already gathered all the confidence that you need. Be straightforward and stop beating around the bush. By now, there’s a great possibility that your prospect already knows your motive, so you basically have nothing to hide. Ask him or her why he or she is still single but do it in a light and humorous way. Always remember to be polite as well.

9.) Determine if he or she still treats you as a stranger or not. Take note of the way he or she sends messages to you in Facebook. Does the person act like your old friends? If that is so, then move on the next level. If you’re a guy, then request for a date. Just consider the things that you both like for you to fully enjoy your time together.



1 Comment

anonymous by Ben on 9/13/2014

What do you do if the girl in question is a model and have a public page not a personal page ???

Did some of your advice apply , i believe yes but do we have to take another approach.

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